When I was in the final year of primary school I was bullied by a bunch of girls who didn’t appreciate the fact that one of the boys ‘liked me’ (oh patriarchy how successfully you pitch females against each other in pursuit of the male gaze) or that I’d decided … [Read More...]

Do you have a visibility word for 2023? 

I don’t always choose a word for the year. Sometimes a word or theme reveals itself to me through the year, and in other years I have set a word and forgotten about it. 

This coming year I want to consciously direct … [Read More...]

When it comes to visibility, the thing I’ve focused on most over the last few years has been stabilising my energy, building healthy habits and rhythms, and becoming more consistent.

It’s not sexy and it doesn’t yield the kind of vanity metrics that people are so swayed by. But as … [Read More...]

One of the most important visibility practices I engage in is observing my inner responses to the news of the world.

I might read a piece of news or someone might mention something to me, and the first thing I try to do is to be still and notice my … [Read More...]