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Staying safe as you become more visible online

Content notes:

This article references child pornography, trolls and threats to personal safety.
Please be aware that if you have a history of domestic or family violence, this post has not covered the type of safety considerations you need to take into account as you grow your online business. That will be covered in the future in a separate post.
And finally, if you have a history of trauma or PTSD there are other considerations to take into account when growing your visibility online. Again, these issues are not covered here but will be addressed in a future post.

Tim Ferriss wrote a piece recently about the downside of fame. For most people who feel some fear when they think about visibility, the article may confirm your greatest fears and reinforce a story you’re probably familiar with which is that visibility is not worth the effort.

But given how … [Read More...]

The spirit of the land is speaking

You may have heard me speak about the impetus for starting the School of Visibility before. I was sitting in a conference in Portland, Oregon and opened intuitively to guidance from the universe about the deeper calling of my life from that time forward. Sitting quietly, the words came very clearly into my head; ‘Make the invisible visible’.

At the time that felt like a broad sort of instruction and I knew it could and probably would mean multiple things; raising the visibility of women, supporting the release of visibility fears, and most of all, making visible the spiritual truths and powers that will underpin the way we live in the new world we’re creating.

Until now, the timing hasn’t been right to speak about spiritual truths and powers that might be cultivated. Certain things needed to happen energetically first. But this recent fire season in Australia has altered a … [Read More...]

Creating a platform

Before you read on, you should know that this article is part of a series on developing a visibility strategy. This is chapter 4 in that series.

You’ll find the rest of the series here.

In this chapter – chapter 4 – in our series on creating a visibility strategy, we’re focusing on visibility opportunities. Specifically the platforms we create from which to then share our work. In Chapter 5 we’ll talk about tapping into other people’s platforms and in Chapter 6 we’ll talk about promoting our work and our platform once it’s established.

As a business woman, a creative, a social justice warrior, or a coach it’s imperative that your visibility efforts link to some kind of platform. A landing place for people who want to know more about you. Your platform showcases your ideas, your philosophy, your unique approach. It tells people why they should gravitate to you … [Read More...]

Blocks to creating a visibility strategy

Before you read on, you should know that this article is part of a series on developing a visibility strategy. This is chapter 3 in that series.

Pick up all the chapters here.

Thus far in the series we’ve considered your deeper why for creating a visibility strategy, as well as the resource commitment you’re willing to make when it comes to implementing your visibility strategy. Before we dive into the various visibility opportunities there are, and which suits you best, let’s address the elephant in many a room; visibility blocks.

Visibility blocks can show up at many different stages in the planning and implementation of a visibility strategy. So when we take our students through our visibility planning process in detail, we include block clearing at multiple stages.

For now, it’s important to take some time to review some of the stories you have about visibility that might be … [Read More...]

#girlboss is not empowering

The women’s empowerment space is an interesting space. On the one hand it attempts to boost women’s confidence and claims to be about women standing in their power.

On the other, there’s so much unacknowledged patriarchal conditioning there that it actually serves to entrench inequality and disempowerment just as often as it attempts to liberate women from it.

#girlboss is a prime example.

#girlboss is not empowering for women.

For girls? Absolutely.

But you’re not a girl. You’re a woman. Which means if you’re going to hashtag yourself, and feel the need to include a gender marker in order to connect with other women, let’s at least go with #womanboss.

Calling yourself ‘girl’ when you’re a woman is a nod to the long time infantilisation of women. It’s a tool that’s been used by the patriarchy to keep women submissive.

It sounds empowering because the word ‘boss’ is in it. … [Read More...]